SEX THERAPIST CALIFORNIA
My practice offers therapy services in support of creatives and change-makers from diverse populations, including couples and relationship constellations, individuals from mixed-race backgrounds, second-generation immigrants, and Adult Third Culture Kids, and am delighted to welcome clients of all genders and sexual orientations. I excel in addressing issues related to relationship dynamics, communication skills, and intimacy, with a particular focus on supporting partners in finding their authentic voices and co-creating their relational experiences. My expertise extends to sex therapy and human sexuality, making me a valuable resource for those seeking to deepen their connection and navigate sexual challenges.
However, my practice may not be the best fit for those facing more acute issues such as severe substance abuse or addiction, acute trauma, eating disorders or acute psychiatric conditions. For these cases, I recommend seeking specialized care from relevant professionals.
Three highly recommended sex therapists in California
Choosing the right sex therapist is essential for addressing your unique concerns and sexual difficulties and achieving your therapeutic goals. Here is a list of highly recommended sexuality professionals in California, including myself, who specialize in supporting individuals, couples and relationship partners with a variety of sexual and relational challenges. If my practice is not the perfect fit for your needs, I have personally worked with or referred clients to these skilled professionals and can vouch for their expertise and compassionate approach.
Kristina Scott
I was born and raised in Northern California, and Hawaii, and am a child of the sun and the sea. The arc of my life has taken me many places, always eager to learn and connect and build community with others. Like all of us, I claim many identities, that have shift and change over time. Here are a few important ones that I hold, lightly: Mixed race (Afro-Latin & White), second-generation immigrant and Adult Third Culture Kid, cis-gendered, straight, middle-aged, divorced, childfree-by-choice, Relationship Anarchist, gardener and wannabe surfer.
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, Lic. #125384 (Supervised by Gieve Patel, LMFT, Lic. #47196)
Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner
Certificate in Sex Therapy, California Institute for Integral Studies
Somatic Sexuality Healing Professional
MA, Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute for Integral Studies
MA, Education, Stanford University
BA, Community Studies, UC Santa Cruz
Sessions are held in person at my Oakland office, or via telehealth throughout the state of California
In practice since 2019
Modalities & Theoretical Orientation: Somatic Experiencing, Somatic Therapy, Mindfulness, Buddhist Psychology, Liberation Psychology, Ecopsychology, Systems Theory, Social Justice
2. Justine Dawson
Justine Dawson has many years of extensive experience in sexuality, mindfulness and relationship coaching. I’ve had the pleasure of working with Justine for the last few years as we've trained together in Somatic Experiencing, and have always been impressed by her deep understanding of human sexuality, incredible skill at integrating mindfulness, embodiment and pleasure, and her ability to create transformative experiences for her clients. Justine offers a unique blend of mindfulness and somatic practices to help individuals and couples connect with their sexual selves and enhance their relationships.
Intimacy & Awakening Coach
BA,International Development and Environmental Resource Studies, Trent University
Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner
Specializing in: Eroticism, mindfulness, and embodiment
20+ years of teaching mindfulness and erotic embodiment
3. Rob Wolf
Rob Wolf is a skilled sex therapist known for his empathetic and client-centered approach. I have had the pleasure of working with Rob in the sex therapy field, and am consistently impressed by his ability to address complex sexual and relational issues with compassion, care, playfulness and humor. Rob is a licensed therapist with a strong background in helping individuals, couples and relationship partners of all genders and sexual orientations enhance their intimacy and resolve sexual challenges.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, CA #102816
Certificate in Sex Therapy, California Institute for Integral Studies
MA, Clinical Psychology, JFK University
In practice since 2015
Specializing in: LGBTQIA2S+, gender expression, non-monogamy, BDSM/kink, sex workers, neurodivergence
FAQs about sex therapy
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As a sex therapist, my role in the therapeutic relationship is to create a non-judgmental safe space where individuals, couples and relationship partners can openly discuss their sexuality issues and challenges. I help clients explore their sexual identities, desires, and boundaries while addressing issues such as intimacy, performance anxiety, and sexual dysfunction.
During a sex therapy session, we begin with a thorough assessment to understand the client's history, concerns, and goals. Sessions may include education about sexual desire, sexual health, communication exercises, and techniques to enhance intimacy and pleasure. We might also talk about underlying emotional or psychological factors impacting sexual well-being such as feelings of shame or anxiety, or a history of sexual abuse or trauma.
It's important to note that there is absolutely no sexual contact or sexual activity of any kind in sessions; the focus is on dialogue and understanding, while learning new skills, and developing practical strategies to support you in healing and improving your relationship to your own body, sexual relationships and pleasure.
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In sex therapy, I ask a range of questions to understand my clients' experiences, concerns, and goals. Common topics include sexual history, current sexual practices, and relationship dynamics. I may inquire about any past trauma, addiction, sexual problems, medical conditions, or medications that might affect sexual health. Questions about sexual preferences, fantasies, and boundaries help me understand individual desires and comfort levels.
We also discuss emotional intimacy issues, communication patterns, relationships and any feelings of anxiety or dissatisfaction related to sex. Exploring these areas allows us to identify underlying issues and develop strategies to address them.
Remember, each person's therapy journey is unique and will be tailored to support their specific needs, values, and life goals. The questions I ask and the topics we discuss are always guided by what is most relevant and meaningful to you as whole person, ensuring a personalized and effective therapeutic experience.
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A sexologist is a professional who studies human sexuality, often focusing on research, education, and the scientific aspects of sexual behavior, sexual development, and sexual health. Sexologists may work in academic settings, conduct research, or provide sexual education to the public.
In contrast, a sex therapist is a licensed mental health professional who specializes in treating sexual issues through therapeutic techniques. Sex therapists are trained to work directly with individuals and couples to address concerns such as intimacy problems, sexual dysfunction, and communication issues related to sex.
As a sex therapist, my role is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their sexual concerns and improve their sexual relationships. I offer personalized therapy sessions tailored to each client's needs, values, and goals, focusing on enhancing intimacy and connection, resolving conflicts, healing, and promoting sexual well-being through dialogue and practical strategies.
Connect with me today to take steps toward growth and fulfillment.
My approach to therapy is holistic and client-centered, focusing on creating a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your unique challenges and goals. I specialize in relationship therapy, helping couples and individuals navigate issues related to relationship dynamics, communication, and sexual intimacy. With a background in sex therapy and human sexuality, I bring a compassionate and informed perspective to address your concerns and support your journey towards a fulfilling life and authentic relational experience.
If you're ready to take the next step towards improving your sex life, relationship and sexual well-being, I invite you to reach out for a free consultation. This initial conversation will allow us to discuss your needs, answer any questions, and determine how we can work together to achieve your goals. I look forward to supporting you on your path to a healthier and more satisfying sex life and relationship.